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Hello [First Name],

There is a kind of strength the world praises that is not really strength at all.

It is armor.

It is the clenched jaw, the guarded heart, the need to prove, the urge to control, and the refusal to let anyone see where you still feel tender.

For a long time, many of us were taught this was strength.

But the egoic mind may have helped you survive without being able to lead you into freedom.

Real strength is softer than that.

It is the ability to pause before reacting. To tell the truth without punishing. To set a boundary without hardening your heart. To feel deeply without letting fear make every decision.

That is what it means to become soft yet strong.

In my updated article, I explore how shame, judgment, fear of loss, fear of failure, and old survival patterns keep the egoic mind in control. More importantly, I show you how awareness creates the pause where a different response becomes possible.

You do not have to destroy the egoic mind. You only have to stop letting fear choose for you.

Read the article here:

​https://terrikozlowski.com/how-to-overcome-the-ego/​

Softness is not the absence of strength. It is strength that no longer needs armor to prove it exists.

Always Moving Forward!

Terri Kozlowski

Kozmic Soul Solutions

Author - Life CoachSoul Solutions Podcast Hosthttps://linktr.ee/TerriKozlowski​
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Hi! I'm the Creator, Terri Kozlowski

Native American Terri Kozlowski is a certified life coach, blogger, the author of "Raven Transcending Fear," and founder of Soul Solutions. She specializes in empowering women by teaching them to set personal boundaries, reframe the stories they tell themselves, overcome their fears, and push past their limiting beliefs. Part memoir, part self-help guide, Terri’s book is a raw and personal story of diving deep into childhood trauma, dealing with the terror before ultimately getting comfortable with fear and transcending it. On her successful podcast and YouTube channel, Soul Solutions, she delves into the soul and offers bite-sized takeaways for controlling our egos and emotions. Terri holds a BS in Social Science, has written for NewsBreak, TealFeed, Medium, was a featured coach in Natural Awakenings Atlanta, appeared on over 100 podcasts, and has spoken to groups from 5 to 600. She has helped people with her hard-earned wisdom. Terri lives in Woodstock, GA, with her husband and pampered chihuahua, Lelu. Check out the resources I offer below and sign up for my newsletter! Blueprint: https://page.terrikozlowski.com Boundaries: https://page.terrikozlowski.com/boundaries www.TerriKozlowski.com www.SoulSolutionsPodcast.com www.RavenTranscendingFear.com https://www.facebook.com/groups/8548967271811747 https://www.facebook.com/KozmicSoulSolutions/ https://twitter.com/tmkozlowski https://www.instagram.com/terrikozlowski/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/terrikozlowski/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbT3ygWLAxEcPqOOgCflL_A https://www.pinterest.com/terrikozlowski/

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